tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069995056260858128.post578164188335398717..comments2023-06-11T03:19:14.539-06:00Comments on Vee getting healthy: I am NeedyVeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00530474939705680159noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069995056260858128.post-16136849586410186732010-11-19T20:48:22.794-07:002010-11-19T20:48:22.794-07:00Wow, Vee, I can relate to this post so much. I als...Wow, Vee, I can relate to this post so much. I also struggle with this need for connection. It can turn into a real and often debilitating hunger.<br /><br />While I can't give you answers or solutions, I CAN say that this need for connection often arises when I feel overtired, overwhelmed or restless ... a kind of buzzing on the inside that I just 'know' will get soothed by connecting with someone else. It doesn't. And trying to fill that need by being needed by someone else, often just makes the feeling worse, doesn't it?<br /><br />So I'm learning to need myself and be there for myself. It's OK to focus on yourself. You are ultimately and irreplaceably special and worthy of love, worthy to be noticed.<br /><br />I'm going to comment on your newer posts, too, but I want to really, really give you a HUG and say: Hang in there, you're NOT alone!Pippahttp://pippasporch.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069995056260858128.post-87397795651838321322010-11-16T18:38:28.000-07:002010-11-16T18:38:28.000-07:00Vee, it sounds as if you are gifted. Not everyone...Vee, it sounds as if you are gifted. Not everyone has the relationship ability like you do. While I don't know the hubby, I'll offer up some defense for him, as I know how often I really screw up. It really isn't intentional, and quite honestly, there is no way I could ever show my wife the love she deserves. I keep trying though. <br /><br />I sincerely hope tomorrow is a much better day for you. To answer your question - yep, I need to be needed. I need that in a bad, bad way.South Beach Stevehttp://www.logmyloss.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2069995056260858128.post-23158482856801966212010-11-16T07:35:39.017-07:002010-11-16T07:35:39.017-07:00Wow... I think I know where you're coming from...Wow... I think I know where you're coming from. Promise I will. I'd do it now but I'm headed into the hospital to help take care of my neighbor. I'm always hesitant to call because I'm a scaredy cat. And I tend to over think things and be sad and I'm notoriuos for never shutting the hell up. ....see to much talking/thinking...haha <br /><br />Wish me luck babysitting her today and you knock that flu bug right out the window. Water, broth, popsicles, ginger ale, drugs, and sleep. Well if you can get that last one anyways! ;-) ((hugs))Twixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03112782947827710096noreply@blogger.com